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Built to Diverge is the creative partnership of authors Bontle Senne and Sara-Louise Ackrill. They bring a unique mix of passion, imagination, humour, and deep expertise to our books; talks, and other appearances.

Bontle is an AuDHD speaker, sex and ADHD coach, and global transformation leader. Sara-Louise is a renowned neurodiversity specialist therapist and coach, professional speaker, and social entrepreneur.

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Do you ever feel like lasting love, great sex, and functioning relationships are meant for everyone but you?

Have you started to worry that you are broken somehow?

This unapologetically feminist manifesto-meets-self-help book rewrites the rules on love, lust, and relationships for neurodivergent women—and it’s nothing like what you’ve been told.

With wit, wisdom, and raw honesty, The ND Lovers Club celebrates the messy, magical ways ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent identities shape intimacy. Packed with myth-busting insights, practical advice, and empowering perspectives, it’s a guide for ND women to thrive in love and life—on their own terms.

From mismatched libidos to smashing societal stereotypes, Bontle Senne and Sara-Louise Ackrill invite readers to embrace their extraordinary selves and redefine what it means to lust, like, and love authentically.

If you’re ready to challenge everything you thought you knew about relationships, this is your invitation to join the club.

  • “Senne and Ackrill offer a raw and honest look at the challenges and triumphs of being ND in a world that isn’t always designed for them. Their insights are invaluable, and their humour is refreshing.”

    — Chris Riches, Daily Express

  • "Senne and Ackrill have created something truly transformative—a must-read for anyone looking to foster connection, empathy, and growth in their relationships."

    — Emma Sayle, Founder of Killing Kittens

  • “Finally, a book that speaks directly to the unique experiences of neurodivergent women”

    — Zoe Clews, Trauma Specialist Hypnotherapist 

  • “An essential guide for ND women and their partners, offering valuable insights into communication, intimacy, and the unique ways ND individuals experience love.”

    — Richard Moriarty, The Sun

  • "This book is a game-changer for neurodivergent women navigating the complexities of love and sex. A powerful and empowering read"

    — Female First Magazine

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Meet the Authors

Bontle Senne is an AuDHD author whose neurodivergent insights and lived experiences power her unique approach to leadership, coaching, writing, and publishing. She has published six novels, is a shareholder of a feminist trade publishing house, and has worked as a freelance features writer for over a decade. The ND Lovers Club is her first non-fiction book.

Sara-Louise Ackrill is an AuDHD Politics graduate turned therapist, coach, speaker and award-winning social entrepreneur, with a team of 29 working across many areas of neurodiversity. These include tech, small business support, employability, women's health and holistic therapy. She works with organisations of all sizes and individuals all over the world.