Do you ever feel like lasting love, great sex, and functioning relationships are meant for everyone but you?

Have you started to worry that you are broken somehow?

This unapologetically feminist manifesto-meets-self-help book rewrites the rules on love, lust, and relationships for neurodivergent women—and it’s nothing like what you’ve been told.

With wit, wisdom, and raw honesty, The ND Lovers Club celebrates the messy, magical ways ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent identities shape intimacy. Packed with myth-busting insights, practical advice, and empowering perspectives, it’s a guide for ND women to thrive in love and life—on their own terms.

From mismatched libidos to smashing societal stereotypes, Bontle Senne and Sara-Louise Ackrill invite readers to embrace their extraordinary selves and redefine what it means to lust, like, and love authentically.

If you’re ready to challenge everything you thought you knew about relationships, this is your invitation to join the club.

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"A Groundbreaking Resource for Neurodivergent Women in Relationships”

“With a compassionate and practical approach, the authors provide actionable advice and insights that encourage readers to embrace their authentic selves in the bedroom and beyond. This book is not just a guide but a celebration of individuality and resilience, empowering women to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships without compromising who they are. 

Whether you’re neurodivergent yourself, in a relationship with someone who is, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of how to navigate love and intimacy with authenticity, this book is an invaluable resource. Senne and Ackrill have created something truly transformative—a must-read for anyone looking to foster connection, empathy, and growth in their relationships.”

Emma Sayle, Founder of Killing Kittens

 

“Finally, a book that speaks directly to the unique experiences of neurodivergent women” in relationships, offering validation, understanding, and empowerment. Senne and Ackrill's work is a breath of fresh air, breaking down misconceptions and celebrating the incredible "neuro superpowers" that often go unrecognized—especially in the realm of intimacy and connection”. 

Zoe Clews, Trauma Specialist Hypnotherapist

 

"This book is a game-changer for neurodivergent women navigating the complexities of love and sex. Senne and Ackrill offer practical advice on topics such as dating, communication, and setting boundaries, all while affirming the inherent worth and value of ND women. A powerful and empowering read." 

Female First Magazine

"This book is a must-read for any neurodivergent woman who has ever felt lost or alone in the world of relationships. Senne and Ackrill offer a raw and honest look at the challenges and triumphs of being ND in a world that isn't always designed for them. Their insights are invaluable, and their humour is refreshing." 

Chris Riches, Daily Express  

  

“An essential guide for ND women and their partners...”

"Senne and Ackrill challenge the misconception that ND individuals are bad at relationships. This book is an essential guide for ND women and their partners, offering valuable insights into communication, intimacy, and the unique ways ND individuals experience love. A must-read for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of neurodiversity and relationships." 

  Richard Moriarty, The Sun

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